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Blended family wedding programs require some careful thought and wording to avoid hurt feelings and unhealthy rivalries among all the new siblings. Even if all the pending stepchildren get along, taking the time to choose your wording will keep everyone happy.

First, plan to include a special individual description of each child in the program. Their duties can be listed as they occur in the ceremony as well, but give each child a special place to shine on the program. List their attributes and the special element they will bring to the new family. Some couples list the bride and her children as joining the groom and his children. This gives the sense of a family marriage instead of an adults-only commitment.

Explain special ceremonies in detail for everyone, especially those which will be performed by the children or where they will be joining the couple. If her sons will walk the bride down the aisle or his son is his best man, be sure to give the children recognition. If you will be preforming a special unity candle ceremony or exchanging of rings, explain the symbolic nature to your guests. For example, if all the new members of the family will light a central candle to show their unity as a new family, explain why this ritual means so much to you. Some blended families offer jewelry in the form of rings or necklaces to all the children. This way, the children are an integral part of the service. Items such as the Family Medallion include a suggested presentation ceremony. Use the guide to create your own presentation to ensure each member of your new family will be comfortable. Highlight this presentation and explain the powerful symbolism of an entire family pledging to unite as one in a special place in your program.

If your plans include special verses or poems to highlight the blessing of new children into your lives, explain to your guests why you choose these pieces to include in your wedding. Believe me, even teenagers will hear what you say and read your words. Make your tributes as individual as possible for higher impact and more heartfelt emotion.

If you have smaller children in your group, consider letting them write their own version of the ceremony events on the back of your program. Kids are notorious for getting to the heart of the matter and their descriptions and responses might surprise and delight you. Older kids can write dedications or include special poems. Paragraphs welcoming new siblings to the family can be touching. Do not force your children to participate in any of the program writing if they do not wish to contribute. Forced words of welcome sound hollow and coerced.

Add pictures of the children playing or hamming for the camera. Get mixed groups of his kids and yours doing what they do best; being kids. Formal pictures of you as a group can also be used, but make sure you get some candid shots of everyone as well.

Blended weddings have a few more obstacles to overcome in the beginning, but the rewards are rich and meaningful. By including children in a new marriage, you will be forming the bonds your family will depend on for years to come. Let the children participate as fully as possible and allow them to create parts of the ceremony. Children's minds operate without all the judgment and censorship we adults carry. Listen to them and their unique ideas. And then celebrate the blessing they truly are in your blended family wedding program. wedding color scheme