Whether you decide to exchange vows within the monumental beauty and history of the Old North Church of Boston or on a whale watching boat that bounces along the mysterious waters of the Cape, one thing is certain -- your Massachusetts wedding officiant will set the tone, mood and magic for the day. And whether you have a ceremony that is religious, spiritual, interfaith or civil, you will want to ensure its perfection.

The wedding officiant has a meaningful role in your wedding day. He or she will guide you as you speak your vows and finalize your promise. He or she will be the voice of humor, beauty and hope. Make sure that you select a Massachusetts wedding officiant that makes you feel really comfortable, someone who takes the time to listen to your specific wishes, and someone who respects your vision. Let the Massachusetts Wedding Officiant Guide help you to select the ideal person to guide you through your wedding ceremony.

The state of Massachusetts allows a friend or loved one to perform the wedding ceremony. This adds a level of warmth and intimacy to your special ceremony. If you are interested in having a friend act as your officiant, he or she will need to fill out the necessary paperwork with the Secretary of the Commonwealth. It will take between one and two months for the paperwork to be finalized. Visit the Commonwealth of Massachusetts's web site for the necessary paperwork.

Here is a list of general information to remember as you think about your officiant:

• Mutual Beliefs: Look for an officiant who respects your vision of the wedding ceremony and who will be able to reflect that through his or her words. Whether you write your own vows or choose vows that are pre-written, make sure that you have confidence that the person officiating the ceremony will do justice to your vision.
• Types Of Officiants: You may need to use the officiant affiliated with a specific house of worship. Cantors, theologians, priests, rabbis and religious scholars all perform wedding ceremonies. Additionally, judges, mayors, governors and justices of the peace are also able to perform these duties.
• Costs: Traditionally, officiants have been paid for by the groom or his family. Prices generally start at $100 and can escalate rapidly depending on travel expenses, rehearsals, time spent preparing and actual facility prices.
  As you interview potential officiants, remember that someone who is genuinely interested and concerned in your wishes will follow through and provide you with the best services. If possible, observe officiants performing at public locations. This will give you a realistic idea of who they are and how they carry themselves. Trust your instincts, and hire somebody who will ultimately create a ceremony for you and your guests that will fill this important day with your visions, your hope and your promises.