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Alaska Wedding Counselors

Finding the right person to help guide you into marriage in Alaska.

You have finally found "the One," and you are slowly realizing how much work goes into a successful marriage. From finances to family, there are many psychological challenges that might show themselves before you even put on your wedding gown. Pre-marital counseling is for any couple or wedding party in need of a little guidance. Being joined in holy matrimony often involves joining the family and friends of your loved one and stretching the bounds of commitment in unforeseen ways. With care and compassion, pre-marital counselors attempt to ease the shock of this sudden coming-together of so many different personalities and preferences.

Private Pre-Marital Counseling in Alaska

Every populated area in Alaska, from Anchorage to Juneau, offers excellent private counseling services. Many counseling offices provide help from psychotherapists, social workers and LPCs (Licensed Professional Counselors) depending on the issues you would like to address. When looking at options for pre-marital counselors in Alaska, consider some these elements to ensure therapy effectiveness:

Neutrality and Trust - The counselor has no biases or issues with your union, and truly wants to help all parties to feel accepted and supported in their sessions.

Common Purpose - Does the counselor share and understand your faith? Be clear about your cultural background and how you want this to be a part of your counseling.

Cost - Many insurance plans cover a portion of private counseling, but not all. Some counselors will give discounts for clients paying out-of-pocket.

Location - Are the sessions close enough that you can consistently make your appointments?

Extended Services - If issues arise with family or friends, will the sessions be open to them, as well? This is your choice, ultimately, but these options are important to clarify.

To begin your search, open your local Yellow Pages to "Counseling" and make some phone calls. If you are concerned with privacy, you do not need to give your name during the initial phone call as you ask questions. Gauge your comfort level as you speak with potential counselors. If you feel put off at all, this will likely continue during sessions and make the counseling less effective. If you have set your wedding date, you may be on a ticking clock, so it pays to make a well-thought out choice of a counselor right from the start.

Pre-Marital Counseling from Your Church or Religious Group

Many couples opt for pre-marital counseling through their church or local faith-conscious counseling agencies. Most spiritual leaders are very aware of the challenges of bringing together a new family, and will gladly lend an ear and voice to your struggles for little or no cost. This is an excellent option for couples who wish to confide in someone they already know and respect.

Faith plays a large role in many marriages, and finding someone who shares your religious and cultural values is very important if this is the case. If members of your family will be attending the counseling sessions, be considerate of how they might feel with the counselor as well. If your future mother-in-law does not share your faith, try to find someone who will take all beliefs and feelings into consideration. This will ensure a higher chance for success. In making the decision to request guidance from your pastor, rabbi or priest, consider the issues you would like to address. If privacy is a concern, let them know early on. If you do not feel comfortable or have confidentiality concerns, look elsewhere for faith-based counseling services. There are many faith-based counseling agencies in Fairbanks, Anchorage, Juneau and beyond. While referrals from others are a wonderful place to start your search, do not feel pressured to delve into your issues with anyone you are not 100% comfortable with. Neutrality can make or break pre-marital counseling efforts.

No matter who you contact for pre-marital counseling in Alaska, follow your instincts and keep in mind your personal preferences for the process.

Written by: Creighton Connor

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